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Monday, September 17, 2007
Languages of Apology

- Emotional Part (Feeling).
- I realise that my behaviour hurt you deeply and I'm hurting because I hurt you and I won't want to hurt you again.
(2) Accepting Responsibility
- No excuse.
- I'm sorry, I was wrong.
(3) Making Restitution
- What can I go to make it up to you?
(4) Repenting
- Expressing the desire not to do this again.
(5) Requesting forgiveness
- Will you forgive me?
These are from Dr Gary Chapman.
True enough, in life we can't have a long-term relationship without apologising but some don't apologise because of pride. Yet, some who have apologised would feel still feel condemned, which is not the intended outcome that God would desire. We just need to do our part to apologise and let God do the rest about the other person. Apologising will help to set you free in the natural realm and it also shows that you admit your wrong and willingly let God take control to change you and deal with the other people involved too. This will bring a breakthrough in the spiritual realm.
You will be able to know your or others languages of apology by looking at these questions:
- When you apologise to someone, what do you typically say or do?
- When someone apologise to you, what do you want to hear them say or do?

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